COMMUNICATE YOUR WAY TO A BETTER RELATIONSHIP INSTANTLY
- The 4 Golden Rules Of Communication For Couples
The key to a successful relationship is undoubtedly good communication. For a relationship to work, couples must constantly communicate their thoughts and feelings to each other. However, as time goes by, couples lose interest communicating with each other. They run out of topics to talk about and conversations become monotonous. A slight mis-usage of words can easily metamorphose into an argument out of proportion. Couples start losing their loving connection and relationships become a chore rather than an avenue of enjoyment.
At Love Clinic, we have 4 golden communication rules which you should always keep in mind. They can be applied to maintain your relationship at its peak and prevent you from losing that important person in your life. To help you remember these rules, we have devised a mnemonic – L.O.V.E, where L stands for Listening, O for Open communication, V for Verbalising and E for Empathy.
Rule #1: ListeningYou must have gathered from various websites or seminars that the key to effective communication is listening. We couldn’t agree more. If both parties can listen to each other well, they are more likely to understand each other’s ideas and avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.
How do you train yourself to listen effectively? In the initial stages, communicate with your partner with the same vigilance as if you are clinching a 100 million dollar deal. Listen actively to what he/she has to say, process in your brain the feelings he/she is experiencing and react accordingly. Paraphrase what you have gathered and ask questions to clarify when in doubt. Apply these principles to your every day communication. With practice, you will be able to capture your partner’s feelings even before he or she verbalizes it.
Rule #2: Open CommunicationThe second golden rule for effective communication is to communicate openly and sincerely. Be honest in whatever you say and try not to lie to the other party. Share with each other your thoughts and ideas and update the other party on your every day life. As far as possible, do not hide anything from each other. Share secrets so that the other party will feel that he/she occupies an important position in your life.
If you communicate openly with your partner at a regular basis in an honest manner, it will minimize the likelihood of the other party guessing about what you are thinking or doing and hence, reduce the chances of misunderstandings happening.
Rule #3: VerbalisingThirdly, do not expect your partner to read your mind. Always verbalize your wants and needs to the other party. For example, if you are unhappy about what he/she has done, tell him/her in a tactful way, or else the other party may never know your displeasure. If you really love him/her very much, whisper words of love sweetly into his/her ears.
Through continued verbalization of your thoughts and feelings, a better mutual understanding will develop, which will in turn bring your relationship to greater heights.
Rule #4: EmpathyIt has been said that the language of love is not words, but meanings. Hence, it is important to try and understand the other party’s feelings when communicating. Appreciate the other party’s ideas, concerns and expectations and try to see things from his/her perspective. If there are conflicting view points, try to put yourself in the other party’s shoes and identify with each other. With more empathy and concern, your partner will feel loved and this will open up new channels for effective communication.
In conclusion, always remember these 4 golden rules and communicate with L.O.V.E. This not only cuts down on arguments but also bring both parties closer physically and emotionally.
Passion and Sex: What is a relationship without passion and sex? To spice up your relationship, refer to this absolutely seductive guide to intimacy.
How To Find The Perfect Ideal
Sex Partner
- 6 Criteria For Sexual Compatibility
A truly sexually compatible partner is hard to find. A woman with the right body and the right moves can fill your fantasies for years. So if you run across one of the good ones, consider hanging on for dear life... because no matter what else goes wrong, at least you'll be getting good fun constantly. And that's very valuable.
Your perfect sex partner could be short or tall, rail thin or voluptuous, young or older. What matters is that she suits you and you have chemistry in the bedroom.
We're going to assume she's pretty and explore the less superficial elements of what makes a perfect sex partner. Read below to see how high she ranks in sex-ability.
We're going to assume she's pretty and explore the less superficial elements of what makes a perfect sex partner. Read below to see how high she ranks in sex-ability.
1. She's clean
First and foremost your perfect sex partner needs to be well manicured. She's trimmed, groomed and pampered. Her skin is soft and clear. She smells sweet. She owns a medicine cabinet full of lotions and beauty aids all meant to make her look, feel and smell terrific.
This is the kind of girl who perpetually seems like she's fresh out of the shower. And even first thing in the morning, she can still get you hot and bothered.
First and foremost your perfect sex partner needs to be well manicured. She's trimmed, groomed and pampered. Her skin is soft and clear. She smells sweet. She owns a medicine cabinet full of lotions and beauty aids all meant to make her look, feel and smell terrific.
This is the kind of girl who perpetually seems like she's fresh out of the shower. And even first thing in the morning, she can still get you hot and bothered.
2. She's open to new adventures
She open to anything you want to try. It could be dirty talk or black masks and whips if that's your thing! Anything you can dream up is fair game. This allows every desire you have to be fulfilled, so why go elsewhere? The point is, you're into it, and she's giving you the green light.
She suggests all the crazy things, she's shaped like a goddess and she has that quality that men have gone to war over.
She open to anything you want to try. It could be dirty talk or black masks and whips if that's your thing! Anything you can dream up is fair game. This allows every desire you have to be fulfilled, so why go elsewhere? The point is, you're into it, and she's giving you the green light.
She suggests all the crazy things, she's shaped like a goddess and she has that quality that men have gone to war over.
3. She proposes new things to try
On the other hand, she also brings some ideas of her own to the table, or rather the bed. She reads up on sex and is familiar with the most fulfilling positions and the newest sex toys, and she knows what sex-improving exercises she can do to make your sex tremendously satisfying.
She has imagination and unquenchable desires that she isn't afraid to share with you. This shows that she's comfortable with you and has a healthy sexuality.
On a related note, she will be the one to introduce new things. She will come to you and initiate sex; this will make you feel more desired.
On the other hand, she also brings some ideas of her own to the table, or rather the bed. She reads up on sex and is familiar with the most fulfilling positions and the newest sex toys, and she knows what sex-improving exercises she can do to make your sex tremendously satisfying.
She has imagination and unquenchable desires that she isn't afraid to share with you. This shows that she's comfortable with you and has a healthy sexuality.
On a related note, she will be the one to introduce new things. She will come to you and initiate sex; this will make you feel more desired.
4. She's got a sexy shape
This means different things to us all, but I think we can agree that ample breasts, full lips and a tight body are universally desired. There's a pleasant absence of cellulite on her thighs and butt. And hopefully she's comfortable with herself and knows how to dress to accentuate her positive features. It's impossible to see her nude without thinking sex. In fact, just seeing her half-naked or touching her leg in bed is enough to get you going.
This means different things to us all, but I think we can agree that ample breasts, full lips and a tight body are universally desired. There's a pleasant absence of cellulite on her thighs and butt. And hopefully she's comfortable with herself and knows how to dress to accentuate her positive features. It's impossible to see her nude without thinking sex. In fact, just seeing her half-naked or touching her leg in bed is enough to get you going.
5. She doesn't rush you
Have you ever been with a really attractive girl who did all the right things sexually but just didn't satisfy you? Chances are this happens because you felt pressure to perform or she was rushing you through it. This messes up your rhythm and your whole performance. When you find a perfect sex partner, you won't constantly be checking your watch and will be able to focus on the task at hand.
6. She has that X-factorHave you ever been with a really attractive girl who did all the right things sexually but just didn't satisfy you? Chances are this happens because you felt pressure to perform or she was rushing you through it. This messes up your rhythm and your whole performance. When you find a perfect sex partner, you won't constantly be checking your watch and will be able to focus on the task at hand.
This is difficult to define. In the simplest terms, this quality is an animal attraction that motivates you to go the extra mile sexually. For instance, after round one of sheet wrestling, you'd fall asleep next to a lesser woman, but not this one. She somehow makes you rise to the occasion to have sex multiple times, exhausting you physically, but never dampening your desire. She sends you into a frenzy. You can't get enough of her or she of you.
Finding an outstanding sex partner takes a huge burden off your mind. It's as important as, for instance, a guarantee that your bank account will never be empty or being indispensable at work.
If you can recognize and hold on to her, you will never have to go without good sex. It's one part of your life you can just enjoy and not stress over. Let her fuel your real-life sex, as well as your fantasies.
Long Distance Relationship: It is well known that distance draws couples apart. It causes one party to be away from the other. Will such relationships gradually wear down and result in a break up? We analyse it for you and offer practical solutions.
9 Proven Ways To Create Intimacy In A
Long Distance Relationship
Intimacy is a key survival ingredient in a long distance relationship. Without that feeling of connectedness, doubts and dissatisfaction start to emerge and can eventually lead to serious problems. Due to this, it's even more important for couples in long distance relationships to find ways of keeping that feeling of togetherness.
The main idea behind these ideas below is to help you and your partner feel more involved in each other's daily lives. You may not actually be there, but you can definitely make them feel like you're a part of what's going on in their lives.
1. Voice Memos
Nothing can bridge the gap like the sound of your partner's voice. Voice memos are one of the easiest and cost effective ways to achieve this. You can send your partner a voice memo key chain with the words "I love you" on it. You can get a voice memo photo frame and record "thinking of you always" on it. You can get a personal recorder and just say random thoughts about your day to your partner and send it to them at the end of the week. Many stuffed animal companies offer voice recordings inside of the toy. You could say different recordings such as, good night, sweet dreams, good morning, I love you, and so on.
2. Start Blogging!
Chances are you're pretty Internet savvy if you are in a long distance relationship. If you are, sign up for a free blog somewhere and send your partner the username and password. Use this tool as a way to frequently communicate with each other about your daily life and thoughts. If you don't have access to a blog, write a little something about your day each night. At the end of the week, mail your partner the letters.
3. Web Cam Dates
When you're missing your partner's touch, a web cam date can be the closest remedy available. Frequently arrange a set time for these dates. Take turns planning on what you'll talk about or do. Some couples have used these as an opportunity to share a romantic candlelit dinner, watch a movie together or even play games online.
4. Keep a "LOVE" plant
A plant is often referenced as a symbol of a growing relationship. Use this symbol in your romance by sending each other a plant to take care of. As the plant grows, press leaves or flowers to send to each other in your mailings. When the long distance aspect of your relationship ends, plant them side by side at your new dwelling.
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